A gentleman’s guide to dating in your 30s
It’s no secret that dating in your 30s is different than dating in your 20s. But what exactly is it that makes the experience so different? And how can you make the most of dating in your 30s?
Here are a few things to keep in mind:
#1. You’re not in your 20s anymore.
This may seem like an obvious one, but it’s worth mentioning. You’re not in your 20s anymore, and that means you can’t approach dating the same way you did when you were younger, at least not if you wish for different results and to enter a lifelong partnership.
#2. You have more experience now.
If you’re in your 30s, chances are you’ve already had a few relationships under your belt. This gives you a big advantage over someone who is in their 20s and is still trying to figure out the dating game.
#3. You know what you want now.
In your 20s, you may have dated around just for the sake of dating. But now that you’re in your 30s, you probably have a better idea of what you’re looking for in a partner.
#4. You don’t have time to waste.
In your 30s, you simply don’t have the time to waste on dates that don’t go anywhere, not if you are looking for a long-term partner that is. If you are interested in a long term relationship, you want to find someone who is on the same page as you are, and who you can see yourself having a future with.
#5. You can be more selective now.
Because you know what you want and you don’t have time to waste, you can afford to be more selective when it comes to who you date. You can be choosier about who you go out with and how you spend your time.
#6. Dating in your 30s can be fun!
Just because you’re not in your 20s anymore doesn’t mean dating has to be a chore. In fact, dating in your 30s can be a lot of fun. You’re at a point in your life where you know what you want and you’re not afraid to go after it. So have fun with it!
#7. Use your experiences to your advantage.
If you’ve been through a few bad relationships, use those experiences to your advantage. Learn from your mistakes and use them to make better choices in the future.
#8. Be yourself.
This is probably the most important piece of advice for dating in your 30s: just be yourself. At this point in your life, you know who you are and what you want, so there’s no need to try to be someone you’re not. Be confident in who you are and what you have to offer, and someone will be sure to appreciate it.
#9. Don’t get too caught up in the “rules.”
When it comes to dating, there are a lot of “rules” out there. But the truth is, most of those rules are arbitrary and don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. So don’t get too caught up in them. Just focus on being your best self and having a good time, and the rest will fall into place.
#10. Enjoy the process.
Dating can be a lot of fun, so make sure you enjoy the process. Don’t take it too seriously and just relax and go with the flow. The more you enjoy yourself, the more likely you are to find someone who is a good match for you.
#11. Have patience.
Finally, remember to be patient. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is a successful relationship. So don’t expect things to happen overnight. Just take it one step at a time and enjoy the journey.
Dating in your 30s doesn’t have to be a bad thing. In fact, it can be quite enjoyable if you keep a few things in mind. Just remember to be yourself, have fun, and be patient, and you’ll be sure to find someone special. Don’t settle for anything less. You can have casual relationships or hookups while you are seeking the right one. There are no rules that say you can’t so don’t string anyone along as that is not something a true gentleman would ever do.